the will to love
After talking to Spencer about dating and after talking to Vincent about some apologetics stuff, I decided to listen to some Ravi Zacharias. I found this message on dating titled, "I, Isaac, take thee, Rebekah", part 1, part 2.
After listening to it, I realized that love is not just emotion, but a matter of the will. He makes this hugely compelling argument about sexual purity describing and explain the importance and beauty of our body as God's temple.
It's really hard to summarize all of Ravi's thoughts. To get a better understanding, just listen to the message. The whole thing is a little under an hour long.